Communication can only work when selfishness is absent. If your partner misunderstands you and you are aware of this, it is your responsibility to make him/her understand. Be aware that you can only do this with care and in a loving manner. Get him/her to open that door. It is much better when you don’t give room to communication gap i.e. do not let things get out of hand before taking action(with love of course).
If you find it difficult expressing your feelings/disappointments face to face, then try writing it down. Yes, there’s power in writing. When you write your thoughts down, you do so without fear and interruption. On the other hand, if you have made the mistake of not taking action when you were meant to and a gap seems to have developed, do not give up....do not run away because you could be running from a partner that could very well be the best thing that ever happened to you. To stay and fight and trust that your partner will understand your troubles is a sign of courage and one that will be greatly respected.
A good, strong relationship will endure most any mistake made by any humans long as both partners are willing and honest with each other.....Good luck. 2 3
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