tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42656177765490064482024-02-19T16:45:36.950-08:00Love and Romancesuccesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-16960567895716093102012-01-21T01:49:00.000-08:002012-01-21T01:49:44.238-08:00How to make your marriage better<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="module moduleText color0" id="mod_17454818"><div class="txtd" id="txtd_17454818"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDheSfjS3M3GuEHMW4bdmIT0qfK42s28AOiYEig-tvdKgCE6gQvVa1DN23hsHmSUWtwmG0nzq5nQCIgdnlUHcUuiXBTnpSUZa0TuxD876h0D0TLLzbNXByeVM6m8hdn3dTDoy_tTNlE5A/s1600/showing+love+and+respect.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDheSfjS3M3GuEHMW4bdmIT0qfK42s28AOiYEig-tvdKgCE6gQvVa1DN23hsHmSUWtwmG0nzq5nQCIgdnlUHcUuiXBTnpSUZa0TuxD876h0D0TLLzbNXByeVM6m8hdn3dTDoy_tTNlE5A/s1600/showing+love+and+respect.jpg" /></a><em> Understanding that your wife’s deepest need is for love and a husband’s deepest need is for respect is the core in how to make your marriage better. His love motivates her respect, her respect motivates his love.</em><br />
<em><strong> How does a husband spell love to his wife?</strong></em><br />
<em>Following is a brief review of six concepts. If a you as a husband can memorise them and use even one or two of them each day, it will go a long way in keeping your relationship intact. Husband should ask himself:</em><br />
<em><strong>1. Closeness</strong>: Am i always remembering to move toward her and accept her need to talk and connect with me to be reassured of my love?</em><br />
<em><strong>2. Openness:</strong> Do i share my thoughts with her, and am i sure I’m not resisting her efforts to draw me out?</em><br />
<em><strong>3. Understanding</strong>: Am i careful not to ‘’fix’’ her every time she talks about one of her concerns or problems? Am i remembering that she is an integrated personality and whatever happens affects all of her, especially her emotions?</em><br />
<em><strong>4. Peacemaking: </strong>Am i always willing to resolve issues, and am i careful to never say, ‘’let’s just drop it and move on’’?</em><br />
<em><strong>5. Loyalty:</strong> Do i constantly look for ways to tell her that i will be loyal to her forever-that she’s the one love of my life, the only woman for me?</em><br />
<em><strong>6. Esteem</strong>: Do i always let her know that i treasure her and put highest value on her as a person? Do i let her know that what she does and thinks are important to me? Does she know i couldn’t possibly do without her?</em><br />
<strong><em>How does a wife show respect to her husband?</em></strong><em></em><br />
<em>A wife uses these six concepts to let him know how important and vital he is to her. A wife should ask herself:</em><br />
<em><strong>1. Conquest:</strong> Am I always standing behind him and letting him know I support him in his work and endeavours in his field?</em><br />
<em><strong> 2. Hierarchy:</strong> Do I let him know I respect and appreciate his desire to protect and provide for me and the family? What have I said recently to communicate this?</em><br />
<em><strong>3. Authority:</strong> Have I gone on record that, because he has the primary responsibility for me (even to die for me), I recognize him as having the primary authority? Do i let him be the leader? How have i helped in that regard recently?</em><br />
<em><strong>4. Insight:</strong> Do I trust his ability to analyse things and offer solutions and not just depend on my ‘’intuition’’?</em><br />
<em><strong>5. Relationship:</strong> Do i spend shoulder-to-shoulder time with him whenever I can? Do i let him know that I am his friend as well as his lover?<strong></strong></em><br />
<em><strong>6. Sexuality: </strong>Do i honour his need for sexual release even when I don’t feel like it?</em><br />
<em>As a husband shows love to his wife and a wife spells out respect to her husband, they can’t help but meet each other’s needs. The beauty of it is, if you meet a need in your spouse, it will come back to you as your spouse meets one of your needs. The key is always being willing to cut your spouse some slack.....Good luck. </em></div></div></div>successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-2801286470441181602012-01-18T13:51:00.000-08:002012-01-18T14:54:54.514-08:00Six lies about sex and how to control your sexual drive<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOSkTwdJhPZZ8TQVjfVW5bg0DXihCKuXwBW01KhJDi3_c7ZvLPBh69msxDLx7tJ_U0VEV2DpHTNLOGSPwb1hfB0gLpmtUKXkYyk9CTlFEPvgrgVRg4vul6pFf4Gl_siGW9-jyBXWzQ7vs/s1600/don%2527t+believe+the+lies.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOSkTwdJhPZZ8TQVjfVW5bg0DXihCKuXwBW01KhJDi3_c7ZvLPBh69msxDLx7tJ_U0VEV2DpHTNLOGSPwb1hfB0gLpmtUKXkYyk9CTlFEPvgrgVRg4vul6pFf4Gl_siGW9-jyBXWzQ7vs/s1600/don%2527t+believe+the+lies.jpg" /></a> <i style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"> Sex is a gift from God. Having an understanding of its spiritual place in our lives saves us from lots of heart aches and pain associated with the wrong use of this precious gift.</span></i><br />
<div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>Sex is a gift for married couples. In its divine design, it is the exclusive preserve of married couples. It is one of the most spiritual activities you can engage in as a married couple. I have written on better ways to enjoy good sex as married couples<a href="http://loveandsex.hubpages.com/hub/How-to-enjoy-good-sex" target="_blank"> <span style="color: red;">here</span></a><span style="color: red;">..</span></i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i> Outside of marriage, pre-marital or extra marital sex can totally ruin your destiny if you don’t know how to deal with your emotions and sex drives...There are many false beliefs about sex which this article will bring to your knowledge.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br />
</div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><b>1. Sex will make him/her get committed to you: </b>Sex is not powerful enough to make anyone get committed to you in a meaningful relationship. If he/she isn’t interested in having a serious relationship with you, seducing, manipulating and controlling him/her sexually will not make them change their minds.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><b>2. Engaging in sex with the person you are dating will make him/her think that you are a sophisticated and mature person:</b> At this point, the question to ask is: what is sophisticated and mature about sexually transmitted disease, broken hearts and unwanted pregnancies? Maturity and sophistication is the ability to restrain yourself and say no to pre-marital sex. The proof of maturity is really your ability to control your sexual urges in the face of temptation, pressure or emotional manipulation.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><b>3. Having sex with him/her will break down his/her resistance causing him/her to open up to you: </b> Genuine love is the only key that can open a man’s heart. Giving sex instead of that can only lead to misery. If you really want him, show lots of care, affection and develop real intimacy with him. A man who is in love with you and trusts you will not find it difficult opening up his heart to you. Develop trust. Wherever there are secrets, trust doesn’t exist.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><b>4. He has contributed to your life financially or materially. Having sex with him will only show how much you appreciate this: </b>Lie! You are not in anyway obliged to do this. If the help he rendered to you was designed to enslave you to later become his sex slave, then break off from him. If he makes you think that you are hopeless and helpless without him, that is a lie. Don’t give in to sexual blackmail.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><b>5. You can keep him/her in a relationship if you are an expert in bed: </b>You can never have him/her under your influence through your sexual ability. Sexual skills does not stop marriages from breaking up, remember? It doesn’t stop infidelity as well. What keeps a man faithful to a woman is his commitment to the integrity of that relationship. Sexual desire fades. You cannot afford to build your life based on this emotion because it is not strong enough to sustain a relationship.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><b>6. Having sex with the guy/lady you are dating will make them forget the other person in their lives: </b>If you know he/she has someone else in their lives before you came along and you still insist on dating, you are putting your self esteem to mud. Why should you settle for second best when you can find someone who will treat you with greater respect and honor? No matter what quantity of sex you engage in, he/she is an unfaithful person and will remain so as long as he/she gets free sex from you.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i> <b> Ways to control your sexual drive</b></i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>1. Acknowledging your sexual drive is the first step towards dealing with it.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>2. Cultivate quality friendships with like minded individuals with whom you share the same values.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>3. Get a mentor of the same sex, to whom your relationship will be accountable. You should not enter a relationship that you want to keep secret. Secrecy always results in sin.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>4. Take control of your imagination.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>5. If you are dating and you have challenges with your sex drive, then spend time together in outdoor activities rather than locking up yourselves in indoor activities.</i></div><div style="color: black; font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>6. Feed your mind on God’s word, the bible and any edifying Christian literature...Good luck </i></div></div>successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-41297129654410923542012-01-14T14:04:00.001-08:002012-01-14T14:28:23.170-08:00How to make long distance relationships work<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6Z4SbwSj6aXkE4F-gonNTY2qCEotxR8Phb_X7Vil7ua_bKlSzy6sFVeme8AGIkK_sMwmYm1hvZrgpf70IFylr404Un2gP0_lkAr9vQbEnmIDjA5SzbwiN9t9D2nvqPxHs6OvPL637NI4/s1600/love+across+d+borders.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="142" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6Z4SbwSj6aXkE4F-gonNTY2qCEotxR8Phb_X7Vil7ua_bKlSzy6sFVeme8AGIkK_sMwmYm1hvZrgpf70IFylr404Un2gP0_lkAr9vQbEnmIDjA5SzbwiN9t9D2nvqPxHs6OvPL637NI4/s320/love+across+d+borders.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUCHEUM%7E1%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml" rel="File-List"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUCHEUM%7E1%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx" rel="themeData"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUCHEUM%7E1%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml" rel="colorSchemeMapping"></link><style>
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<div class="MsoNormal"><i>Recently, I have been hearing a lot of people complain ‘’I can’t continue with this relationship, he/she is so far away...We get to see each other once in a blue moon.’’</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>If you are one of those having a long distance relationship and you feel you are fed up due to the distance, then, this article is specially made for you.</i><br />
<i> Today, I will be giving you tips on how to make your relationship work even if you are miles apart.</i></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><i><b>1.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span>Never take communication for granted: </b>Technology has given you effective ways to convey your heart desires via phone, e-mails, web cam etc. Constant communication with your partner will help you feel closer to him/her though miles apart.</i></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><i><b>2.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span>Trust your partner:</b> Trust, a very important thing makes relationships solid. Don’t give rooms to insecurities and suspicions. Have faith in yourself and your partner. As long as you both are true to yourselves and have no hidden intentions, things will be fine.</i></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><i><b>3.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span>Keep yourself busy:</b> You have to focus on some other things while waiting for your partner. Don’t just sit until he/she comes back, what if they don’t come? Try to identify those things that you love doing. Find ways to get yourself occupied and allow yourself to grow even in their absence.</i></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><i><b>4.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span>Be patient:</b> Patience, they say it’s a virtue. If you having a long distance relationship and happen to be a hasty person, please learn to patient. Don’t focus your attention on all the negative aspects of your love life. This type of relationship requires steadfastness. Be willing to work patiently through it.</i></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><i><b>5.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size-adjust: none; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span>Live your life!: </b>Yes! Live it to the fullest. It’s just one life remember? He didn’t take your life with him when he left, did he? Surround yourself with family, colleagues, friends and live for the purpose you were made regardless of his or her absence. </i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18pt;"><i> I know that being in a long distance relationship is not really easy, but when you keep in mind that there is someone across the miles who adore you, everything will be set right....Good luck.</i></div></div>successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com73tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-79344007613674126362012-01-10T15:54:00.000-08:002012-01-10T16:26:24.534-08:00HOW TO DEAL WITH BEEN DITCHED<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUCHEUM%7E1%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml" rel="File-List"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUCHEUM%7E1%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx" rel="themeData"></link><link href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CUCHEUM%7E1%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml" rel="colorSchemeMapping"></link><style>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOKxx0JEBDkijM3CHiaCKsTZMnLEeHZdAT1hjQfE45ToU6iLVnDSGqEyHO1FrL43fojeClajTLDIJaguEJkr5uv9mwp0ZVD5Aw7ylaI2iLnJUXPVCD90OmvnGhsytyLst5mDlQ7w7vJQY/s1600/hurting.....jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOKxx0JEBDkijM3CHiaCKsTZMnLEeHZdAT1hjQfE45ToU6iLVnDSGqEyHO1FrL43fojeClajTLDIJaguEJkr5uv9mwp0ZVD5Aw7ylaI2iLnJUXPVCD90OmvnGhsytyLst5mDlQ7w7vJQY/s1600/hurting.....jpeg" /></a></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i> </i><i>Getting ditched happens every day. As you read this article, there is someone, somewhere who just got dumped for one reason or the other. It can never come with a good feeling. If by any chance, you went through this experience recently, then join me while I brush through some tips that can help you recover.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>Firstly, we will see the phases of break up.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i> <b>Phase one: The injury phase.</b></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>At this phase, you cry, you are depressed, it seems the whole world has come to an end for you, you don’t eat, you spend time in dark rooms, you wish the ground would open up to swallow you, you text him/her to the extent that you are becoming mad, you drive by his/her office or house to check if his/her car is parked there, you swear you would never get into any relationship again.. In fact, at this phase, you are beyond hopeless.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i> <b> </b><b>Remedy:</b></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>Hang out a lot with family and friends. Go to the beach, go out to see some movies, comedies. Get busy with something else (no matter how difficult). This phase is a natural process which will pass with time.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i> <b> </b><b>Phase two: The anger phase</b></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>Here, the wrath in you is activated. Your heart is filled with vengeance. You ask yourself what ever gave him/her the guts to dump you. At this phase, you are halfway to recovery.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i> <b>Remedy:</b></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>Destroy every belonging of his/hers’ in your possession. Burn love letters, tear up pictures. This way, you have finalized the breakup yourself.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i> <b> </b><b>Phase three: The letting-go phase.</b></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i>Hmmmmm......at this phase, you have arrived your destination. You become glad that you actually broke up with him. You start asking yourself the ‘so special thing in him/her that actually made you fall in love. You are back to your normal self, ready to start new relationships. </i></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i> </i><i>Falling out of love is not a day job. It takes time just as falling in love does. Bear in mind that no matter what, life goes on. There’s a second or third chance to meet that special person. Your own person. Get a grip and start afresh. You will be happy you did....Good luck.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div></div>successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-39435116453311505412012-01-06T07:34:00.000-08:002012-01-10T12:00:54.059-08:00LISTENING TO YOUR WOMAN<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> <b><i> </i></b></span><b><i>Inattentiveness can make or mar your relationships, friendship or marriage. It could lead to break ups in relationships or even divorce in marriages. Most times, we only concentrate on ourselves that we don't catch what the other person is saying. </i></b><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><b><i> </i></b></span><b><i>Imagine how provoking it would be lying next to your partner, discussing a serious matter and then suddenly realize that he has fallen asleep. I, for one, adores a man who listens. Being attentive when your woman speaks goes a long way to tell her just how much you respect her. It strengthens her trust in you. It reduces tension as well. It makes love real. Listening is one of the best ways to express love and care. It is one important key in a relationship. If and when you cultivate the habit of listening to her, you are encouraging her to confide in you. Wait a minute! When I say ‘’listening’’, I don't mean sitting down there and hearing whatever that is been said. You have to under</i></b><b><i>stand her experience, feelings or point of view. You don't necessarily have to agree to whatever she is saying. Just make sure you always give her your undivided attention.</i></b><u><b><i> </i></b></u><b><i>Help out by asking question as this encourages her to open up and clarify things the more. If you have not been attentive to her, it's never too late to make amends. By taking time to listen to her, you show her how important she is...Good luck..</i></b></div><b><i></i></b></div>successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-53504651497095515282012-01-01T06:18:00.000-08:002012-01-01T06:18:34.963-08:00TOP 7 SIGNS HE IS CHEATING<strong><em>1. You get calls where the caller hangs up when he/she hears your voice.<br />
2. He uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly<br />
3. He stops wearing his wedding ring<br />
4. He starts asking funny questions like ''do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time’’ ?<br />
5. He begins to delete his call history when they used to accumulate.<br />
6. He becomes accusatory asking if you are being true to him usually out of guilt.<br />
7. He suddenly stops having sex with you.</em></strong><strong><br />
</strong>successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-21005297530381188342011-12-29T06:39:00.000-08:002011-12-29T06:39:19.362-08:0016 TOP IDEAS TO MESMERISE YOUR LOVERCheck out the best ways to make your partner's heart melt....The finest act of seduction.<br />
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<em><strong>F</strong><strong>or Your Wife/Girlfriend:</strong></em><br />
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1. Kidnap her for a surprise picnic. Plan your rendezvous for the weekend or when you both have a free day. Make sure she doesn't have any plans. Then you tell her to come with you to the supermarket or something along those lines. Give her time to get ready, get in the car, and pick up some take-out food. Then head to a nice empty beach or park and explain to her that you're having a romantic getaway!<br />
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2. Write her a poem. If this is not your thing, there are lots of places to get some inspiration. Try a poetry book, romantic song, etc. Just don't repeat anything word for word because it may sound familiar to her and she'll know you faked it. <br />
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3. Cook her a delicious meal, light some candles, dim the lights and CLEAN the house! When she gets home, she'll be speechless. <br />
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4. Hold her hand every time you go out. If this isn't possible (because one of you is carrying a baby or pushing a shopping cart) then make sure to maintain some form of physical contact. This will make her feel like you're proud to be with her and can't keep your hands off her!<br />
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5. Give her a spa like treat. Fill your tub with warm water then add some milk and honey. Invite her in, give a a nice scrub down, then sit behind her and give her a firm yet gentle scalp massage. <br />
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6. Plan a photography session. Let your wife or girlfriend get all dolled up for you, then take pictures of her that you'll keep in your wallet, office, or car. Tell her that she's beautiful and that she takes amazing pictures. <br />
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7. Get up a few minutes before her one day and write a simple "I Love You" on a post-it. Stick the post-it on the bathroom mirror or someplace she'll be sure to see it. This is guaranteed to make her feel special.<br />
If you want to expand on this idea, you can leave sweet little notes for her in so many other places too!<br />
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8. If you're an artist, take inspiration from Titanic and draw, paint, or sculpt your lover. You'll get the best results if your masterpiece actually looks good but if not, tell her you could never create something as beautiful as her.<br />
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For Your Husband/Boyfriend: </strong></em><strong><br />
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1. After a hard day at work, give your man an exquisite back massage. Use some aromatherapy massage oil to relax and soothe him. <br />
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2. Wear lingerie. This might not seem like the most romantic thing to do, but he will absolutely love it. He will definitely appreciate the effort you made and it'll seem super-romantic to him!<br />
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3. If your lover shaves his face, you do it for him. Play some romantic music, lather him up, and use slow, gentle strokes to shave him. DO NOT cut or nick him! Just take your time and he'll feel satisfied and taken care of. <br />
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4. Take some time out to just look into each other's eyes. Appreciate his presence, his scent, and his warmth. If you feel like kissing him, go for it!<br />
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5. Pretend to need him. Men like to be the ones to protect you, so tell him you get scared when he's not around or that you feel safe with him there.<br />
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6. Cuddle him unexpectedly. Warning - do this when you two are completely alone so that he won't feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. To keep him happy, stop before he feels crowded. I suggest you hold him for about 5-6 minutes, then give him some space.<br />
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7. Buy him tickets to a football or basketball game that you know he wants to see. To keep things romantic, go with him and cheer for his team!<br />
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8. Cook him a huge feast, let him stuff himself, and then you load the dishes in the dish washer while he rests. When you're done, sit near him and stroke his arms while whispering sweet nothings in his ear. <br />
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These are great tips that you can use anytime. Good for special occasions such as anniversaries or when you just want your partner to feel extra special. Don't ever let your significant other forget how much you care. Keep them feeling warm and fuzzy and they'll treat you so much better! <br />
Good luck...successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-62950497791734345332011-12-24T14:05:00.000-08:002011-12-24T14:05:31.600-08:00HAVING SEX OR MAKING LOVEHaving sex or making love?<br />
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Actually, the difference between the two concepts is bigger than some of us would like it <br />
to be. And, as almost every time, women feel it the most. What is the difference? Well, <br />
love. Women need to be protected, looked after and loved as much in bed as in everyday <br />
life.<br />
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Keep in mind that this is not just a legend used by women to manipulate men. The <br />
difference between having sex and making love, together with its implications in a <br />
couple's sex life is what many men forget when sharing the bed-sheets with a woman.<br />
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Clearly, everything written so far will not apply to one-night-stands. In those cases it is <br />
all about a sexual intercourse between two people who only share their bodies. After the <br />
bottom line has been drawn, most men feel good about themselves after a one-night-<br />
stand, without thinking about their sexual performance. Totally pleasing a woman from <br />
the very first time is no easy job as the only mystery she had disclosed is her body.<br />
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Yet, most men are attracted to one-night-stands or, with other words, to having sex. The <br />
lack of commitment needed and the easy attaining of the main goal: feeling good, are just <br />
two reasons pleading in favor of having sex.<br />
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On the other hand there is so much more between a man and a woman making love. <br />
There are feelings and emotions, leading to a totally different connection between the two <br />
of them. More than that, for women, one of the most important things during sex is the <br />
environment. And this means everything from location to those few candles some like to <br />
place around the bed.<br />
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Let's take them in turn a little bit. If you want to leave her smiling and begging for a <br />
cigarette and some more there are some things you might like to take into consideration. <br />
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Trying dad's old car's rear suspension will make the car happier than her. The ideal <br />
location would certainly be a bed in a nice and cozy room with nothing interfering with <br />
the moment. Someone knocking on the door or even a ringing phone can have very <br />
undesirable effects. Some candle-like lights and easy-listening music in the background <br />
adds even more to the overall foreplay.<br />
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Explore every inch of her body and draw imaginary contours with your fingers and <br />
tongue, kiss her neck, breasts, belly and legs, all in a specific order surrounding the most <br />
important area and closing in at the same time. All this will increase the tension and when <br />
that moment comes both you and her will feel the difference.<br />
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Communication is essential for great results. Men must pay attention to the unspoken <br />
signs every woman gives them. Ignoring these signs will make women feel used. The old <br />
legend that says that when a woman says "no" she actually means "yes" is nothing more <br />
than a poor excuse so keep your ears open for her desires.<br />
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If all goes well, you might be given the supreme sexual command and that's "don't stop!" <br />
When you hear that, whatever you do, DON'T STOP! Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-78547802237956286872011-12-22T13:53:00.000-08:002011-12-22T13:53:07.552-08:00BE HIS GIFT OF SELF-ESTEEM FOR CHRISTMAS<strong></strong><br />
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On Christmas Day give your loved one a special gift. This gift should be real and true. It will let him know how dear he is to you and how much you look forward to spending the rest of your life with him.<br />
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This special gift being, your most highest Self-esteem. One that he will never, ever forget. Through your gift of a higher self-esteem, he will know just how much he means to you. After all, you cannot just go to the department store and buy this gift. <br />
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It is a gift that has taken time and effort.<br />
It is a gift that not very many people would even consider giving.<br />
It is a true gift of love. <br />
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Remember, no one likes to open an empty box, so make sure it is full of self-worth and self-esteem. <br />
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You are probably wondering, how am I supposed to do that? I know that sure we can want it and we can fake it, but can we really feel it and offer our self-esteem as a real and true gift, one that will last forever. <br />
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Yes you can!<br />
You just do it.<br />
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You have all heard of the, “Twelve days of Christmas"? <br />
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Well I have put together for you, 12 very positive habits in order to each your highest self-esteem. Not to mention a very good feeling of self-worth. Think of it as the Twelve Days to a Higher Self-esteem! <br />
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We have heard all the love songs and read all the very sweet, romantic Christmas cards that are bought by the millions. In my mind almost all of those sweet lyrics are asking for one thing and one thing only. He wants YOU for Christmas. He wants to see you smile and radiate with love for him. So ladies let’s just do it. Let’s give him a Christmas that he will always remember.<br />
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One that will make him smile every day for the rest of his life. After-all, he is very much worth it. Love is worth all, if not more of the discipline and energy it takes in building that higher, more positive self-esteem. This is my gift to you! I hope that your loved one will be a very happy guy this Christmas, when he sees your gift of self-esteem that you have given him.<br />
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Twelve Days to a Higher Self-esteem: <br />
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Day 1-Write about you! Get a journal and write about you in it every night before you go to bed. Write at least 10 things that you did that makes you smile that day, no matter how small. <br />
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Day 2- Be your own you! Live your life like you want to live it. Make your own decisions. Do not base your decisions on other's wants and desires.<br />
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Day 3- Identify your priorities! Take care of your needs first. Find what gives you lasting pleasure, not just instant quick fixes. To respect your needs is a great way to lift your self-worth and build a higher self-esteem. <br />
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Day 4- Share more of you with others! In sharing a part of you, and making others feel good, you in turn feel very valuable. A feeling of value will send your self-esteem soaring. <br />
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Day 5-Spend time with positive people! Positive people send positive vibes. <br />
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Day 6-Stay away from the "I want" syndrome! Meaning, I want to look like her, I want to be skinny, I want to be perfect, Or I want what I will never have. These are all negative thoughts that only work against your positive self-esteem. <br />
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Day 7- Love Who You Are! Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are UNIQUE at least 10 times throughout this day. Tell yourself that you are SPECIAL. That you are LOVED and want to love back. (It's been a week now and it's been tough, but don't give up! Your more than half way now!)<br />
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Day 8- Stop the comparison game! When you compare yourself, you are questioning your own self-worth. A very BAD HABIT. STOP it on this day! <br />
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Day 9- Stop trying to be perfect! To be a perfectionist will only drain energy that you could benefit you in just being you! We all know that once you can just be you, life seems so much more fun!<br />
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Day 10- Stop putting yourself down! Putting yourself down every chance you get is a definite no-no. You cannot win the positive/negative battle if you continue to think negative. (Almost there now!) <br />
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Day11- HUG a lot! Hug as many people as you can on this day. Just make sure they are not strangers. That could be a bit of a problem. Hugs are just so good! People cannot hug enough or get hugged enough. So hug a lot! <br />
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Day12- (Last Day!) Just do It! You cannot win the battle if you don't do anything to win it. When you actively work toward achieving your positive thoughts, you not only defeat the negative but you also feel good inside about yourself and others. That is exactly what makes your self-esteem soar! <br />
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Well there you have it, my gift to you. How to get your self-esteem to a high enough feeling that it can be a gift from you to him. One that he will surely cherish. <br />
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Christmas time is a very special time of the year. We are all in a very positive, happy mood. The Christmas spirit washes over us like a warm wind. Embrace it, enjoy it, and remember to share your good feelings with everyone. Others are also trying to build their self-esteem and could definitely benefit from your positive smiles and hugs. <br />
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I wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and I truly hope that your self-esteem will be a gift to remember…Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-11842209834242838552011-12-21T12:49:00.001-08:002012-01-01T04:52:50.632-08:0010 THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT SAY TO HIM Ladies, if you want to have a successful dating life, certain phrases should never come out of your glossy lips. Here they are:<br />
1. WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN? You’ll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he’ll call. If not, next. You don’t have time for anyone that doesn’t have time for you.<br />
2. WHY DIDN’T YOU CALL? There’s only one answer to this question: Because he didn’t want to!!! What you’re really asking is, “Why didn’t you want to call me?” Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don’t be so quick to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it’s a big mess!<br />
3. WHERE WERE YOU? If he wanted you to know where he was, he’d tell you. What you’re really asking is, “Where you with another female that you like better than me?” Your insecurity is showing, my dear. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.<br />
4. I LOVE YOU (FIRST) - You’re saying it in the hopes that he’ll say it back, but what if he doesn’t? You’ll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying “I love you” is not going to speed things up if he’s not ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he’s ready.<br />
5. DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? As long as he’s not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don’t torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.<br />
6. I’M PREGNANT. In 2005, with all the birth control choices available, there is no excuse for becoming pregnant, unless you want to be. You should be using something and he should use a condom, every time.<br />
7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s constantly worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it’s going. If it’s going somewhere, you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know it too.<br />
8. WE NEED TO TALK. This is the equivalent of, “Go to the principal’s office”. Guys know it’s not going to be a fun conversation, so they’re already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him when he’s tired, stressed or trying to watch TV!<br />
9. I HATE YOU! Even if you do, it’s totally uncalled for and un-lady like. If there’s an issue, be mature enough to discuss it when you’re calm. If he’s breaking up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily, but it’s best to remain calm and act unfazed. He’ll wonder why you’re so cool about it and that may make him re-think his decision. Always be pleasant during a break up. Do you want to be known as the girl that goes psycho if someone breaks up with her?? I didn’t think so.<br />
10. I DON’T TRUST YOU. What you’re actually saying is, “You need to step up your game, because I can see you’re up to something.” If he is up to something, he’ll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-it’ll be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions…Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-28468240915693994752011-12-21T12:44:00.000-08:002011-12-21T12:44:10.096-08:00How to Talk to a Woman Taking a girl out on a date already says a lot. But this whole business is not just about seducing someone. You must gain the confidence and trust of the person sitting at the other end of the table. More than that, you must make her feel good in your presence and even want more. How to do this? Simple! When you're not flirting with her just let her take control for a while.<br />
Always keep in mind that women's favorite subject is themselves. This little "bug" in their software gives men a big advantage in a conversation and that is curiosity. Yet, only few use it because of the misconceptions surrounding curiosity in general. Curiosity may have killed the cat, but when a conversation between a man and a woman is concerned, I don't think it ever hurt anyone. What I'm trying to say is that if she says something that makes you curious... just ask her! This will tell her that you are interested in her person. Nevertheless, watch out for those not so discreet questions that could turn you into a cat and get you killed.<br />
Another thing most men forget is that women, even the prettiest, disregard themselves. If you discovered something about her that you really like make sure she can feel your admiration. This rule applies to anything from the color of her eyes to the way she back-parked her car for example. Still, try to use original ways to make compliments and remember that you'll receive the most "points" for cherishing her intelligence.<br />
Always listen to her when she talks! Sounds too obvious? Maybe, but the key thing is that it counts less if you've been really listening to her as long as she thinks you weren't. Therefore you can use several tricks like saying confirmation phrases ("I see", "yes" etc.) showing that you're following her. Just don’t do it so much that she mistakes you for her shrink. Re-telling what she just said is another useful skill as long as you don't abuse it. You simply rephrase what she said and she'll know you got the point. Nevertheless it can be very annoying if you overuse it.<br />
And, as I mentioned earlier, when she makes you curious about something just ask her! This proves you were listening in the first place. The same happens when you make a compliment based on something she just said.<br />
But curiosity can also be used whenever you run out of topics in a conversation. Every woman is curious by nature so all you have to do is to stir her curiosity and forget all about you running out of interesting subjects or her getting bored. Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-76947385413875547982011-12-21T12:38:00.001-08:002011-12-21T12:38:56.495-08:007 WAYS TO DRIVE A MAN WILD <br />
It's unbelievable the amount of bad advice there is out there on how to seduce a man or if they give you advice they forget to tell you how to use it properly. So here are a couple of tips on what to do and what not to do to drive a man wild and an instruction manual.<br />
1) Dress in a way that makes you feel sexy and also flatters your figure. Let's face it some of us look ridiculous in stilettos. Red is almost always a good color. Try a red slinky dress and comfortable undergarments. Those torture devices they sell to suck in our guts look great under the dress but are not sexy at all when you are trying to yank them off for a wild night of pleasure.<br />
2) Pay attention to what he has to say for a change. Yes you can talk about yourself but a man finds it really refreshing when a woman allows him to have his own time in the spotlight.<br />
3) Don't talk about your ex. If he asks, keep it short and sweet. You are starting fresh with this guy. No need to bring in the ghost of past relationships. You are perfect to him in the beginning. There is no reason to make him wonder if the last guy who dumped you was right.<br />
4) Wear a light attractive scent. This means layering scents. Bathe in scented bath oils first. Then apply a light powder in the same scent. Finally spray the same scented perfume in front of you and walk into the mist. Do these about 45 minutes before you see him. If you overpower him with your scent, instead of wanting to edge a bit closer he will be running for the nearest exit.<br />
5) If you bring him back to your place make sure it is dimly lit. Soft lighting minimizes lines and wrinkles and gives your skin a bit of a glow. Keep candles handy or lamps that have adjustable lighting. In soft lighting you can be his dream woman and you can feel a thousand times better about undressing in front of him.<br />
6) Do a strip tease for him. Now I am not talking about a ten dollar hooker strip tease. I mean a slow undressing. Have him lie on the bed to watch, as you slowly slip out of your dress, then your undies and finally your stockings and shoes. Make him wait a bit.<br />
7) Explore his body in detail. Consider it a five course meal. Drive him absolutely wild by discovering all the hidden spots he didn't even know existed. Most women just lie there and let the guy do all the work. Participate and you have just blown past most of the women he has had sex with..Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-53360746119014221142011-12-21T12:26:00.001-08:002011-12-21T12:26:25.600-08:005 SUREFIRE WAYS TO AROUSE YOUR WOMAN As there are different types of women, there are different ways to arouse them as well. If you have been in a bit of a slump here are some quick ways to rev up your love life:<br />
1) Dress in a suit and take her out to a romantic dinner. Women love men in suits and almost every man looks good in one. The soft candle light of a romantic restaurant combined with a good wine will put her in the mood to get closer, as well.<br />
2) Work out together. Workouts release pheromones that heighten attraction between couples. Get sweaty together then clean up with some dirty fun in the shower.<br />
3) Take a bath together. Fill the tub with some scented oils or bath salts and toss in some rose petals. Play romantic music and light some candles. She will feel pampered and grateful. Let her relax for a few minutes then slip in with her. There is plenty of opportunity for sexy contact while you clean each other.<br />
4) Role-play can keep your relationship and sex life revved up for years.<br />
Ex. My boyfriend will dress up like a handyman and really get into the act with accent and tools. He comes over and offers to lend a helping hand around the house. He offers a truly helping hand and I tip him extremely well. <br />
5) Practice erotic massage. Either take a class together or get a video or book and practice on each other. This is a great way to get both of you relaxed and heated up. Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-4598162021725477652011-12-21T12:20:00.000-08:002012-01-01T04:53:59.373-08:007 THINGS YOU SHOLD NOT SAY TO HER Guys, we ladies know that you can be pretty clueless. Have you ever said something "innocent" that got your woman really mad? There are just some things a woman does not want to hear. If you want to keep peace in your relationship, take my advice and don't ever say this to your girlfriend/wife:<br />
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Mistake #1: "Your best friend is hot." She'll end up feeling threatened that you're attracted to someone so close to her. It cause tension anytime the three of you get together. If you think her friend, sister, cousin, etc. is a knock-out - just keep it to yourself.<br />
Mistake #2: "Maybe You should go on a diet." Women are insecure enough about their bodies as it is. Seeing models and actresses on TV and in magazines makes many women feel like they're not good enough. You should never let her know that you notice her flaws, because she's probably already obsessing over them. <br />
Mistake #3: "I don't ever want to get married." Most women are interested in long-term relationships. Plus, they love weddings. Telling her that you NEVER want to get married will definitely cause conflict in your relationship. Saying this to a woman may end your relationship or lead to a psycho possessive girlfriend. <br />
Mistake #4: "My ex used to do it different." Your new honey does NOT want to be compared to your ex. Do not remind her that you ever had sexual & romantic feelings for someone else. You might end up making her jealous. The exception is when you are making a comparison extremely favorable to your new girlfriend. However, you have to be careful - bringing up past lovers too often for no reason will make her think that your ex is still on your mind. <br />
Mistake #5: "Maybe I should go without you." If you're going somewhere, and your significant other wants to come, just let her! You know that she might not enjoy herself, but denying her will make her suspicious. Besides, isn't it fun spending quality time together?<br />
Mistake #6: "That fart you made was killer!" If you're both really close and comfortable with each other, this might be okay. However, when she lets one slip by accident and starts blushing, DO NOT laugh at her. It's an extremely embarrassing situation and she doesn't need you to notice that she has "odors."<br />
Mistake #7: "Why do you always want to talk?" I'll tell you the answer now so that you never ask her this. The reason females always want to talk, is because that's what they're good at doing. They've been doing it for years and that's what they're used to. Your silence can mean a lot of different things to a woman, some bad - so open up and let her know what's really on your mind. If you don't want to talk, say that you don't want to talk right now, but would be happy to in 1/2 hour. Anything else will make you look like an insensitive jerk. <br />
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Keep your woman happy and don't utter any of these offensive remarks. Remember that saying the wrong thing could mean that you end up sleeping on the couch tonight! Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-58204844872449181352011-12-21T12:14:00.000-08:002011-12-21T12:14:32.678-08:00DATING TIPS <strong>Share a Little More Personal on Yourself</strong><br />
Have you been dating for a long time but felt that something is still lacking somewhere? Not understanding your partner well enough? The chances are, both of you are likely still stuck at the very initial stage of a relationship. Well give it a thought. Recall the conversations between both of you in your recent dates or so. What was it that both of you discussed about? The plot of a movie? What happened during work? The recent fashion sales? Your neighbor’s new born puppies? Gossiping about your friends? Last evening soccer match? <br />
Notice something about the examples I gave? These are all the usual casual topics that you would have also discussed with your friends. Discussions that do not have direct impact on your personal life.<br />
In a relationship, it’s not about how well or how long you knew each other but rather how well you understand each other? Understanding your love, someone whom you are going to share the rest of your life with. <br />
Well, if in the first place you don’t even have a clue on your partner’s personal life, how will you able to understand each other well? It is through the willingness to share, sharing of your personal life with each other that builds the trust and bond between both of you, strengthening the relationship. <br />
Wouldn’t you love to know more about your partner? Something more personal about him or her? I am sure you do. Well, you can start off by sharing yours, perhaps sharing the problem that you are facing, seeking for your partner’s advice. Think about it, wouldn’t you be happy to know that your partner is willing to share his or her personal problem, having that trust in you? I am sure you will be more than willing to give your support, helping your partner in anyway, to make him or her happy, wouldn’t you? <br />
Be it happiness or unhappiness; be willing to share it with one another. Believe me, you will learn to cherish and appreciate the company of one another…Good Lucksuccesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-15701965852491220842011-12-19T23:16:00.000-08:002011-12-19T23:16:53.101-08:00COMMUNICATION....AN ESSENTIAL THING IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP.Ever trusted before? Ever being trusted before? Been trusted back by someone we trust comes with a very good feeling. When you truly trust someone, you are opening your heart to that one. At this time, you are very vulnerable for any kind of emotional attack. This is why communication is very important in every relationship. To an extent, it is more important than sex in a relationship. With communication, locked doors get open. Communication can only occur between two willing and open minds. This is why it’s quite difficult. It becomes very difficult when one mind is closed....with open minds, you can get past many problems that will arise in a relationship. Bear in mind that a little bit of controversy is quite necessary in a relationship. Therefore, one should be glad that there’s quarrel in a relationship. It helps us in knowing another part of our partner and also ourselves..When we open our minds to another, only then will we offer this part of us. But when we are forced into silence, we create a gap...we begin to build walls. ..If within time we still do not voice our disappointments, the walls/gap becomes wider.<br />
Communication can only work when selfishness is absent. If your partner misunderstands you and you are aware of this, it is your responsibility to make him/her understand. Be aware that you can only do this with care and in a loving manner. Get him/her to open that door. It is much better when you don’t give room to communication gap i.e. do not let things get out of hand before taking action(with love of course).<br />
If you find it difficult expressing your feelings/disappointments face to face, then try writing it down. Yes, there’s power in writing. When you write your thoughts down, you do so without fear and interruption. On the other hand, if you have made the mistake of not taking action when you were meant to and a gap seems to have developed, do not give up....do not run away because you could be running from a partner that could very well be the best thing that ever happened to you. To stay and fight and trust that your partner will understand your troubles is a sign of courage and one that will be greatly respected.<br />
A good, strong relationship will endure most any mistake made by any humans long as both partners are willing and honest with each other.....Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-87135251813423428532011-12-19T23:14:00.000-08:002011-12-19T23:14:44.337-08:00WAYS TO REKINDLE YOUR LOVE LIFEYou will agree with me that when a relationship is still new, it’s all sparkling and alive. But as time goes on, though the love might still be there, the relationship may begin to lose its sparkle.<br />
Let us brush through some ideas you might consider using to rekindle the fire...<br />
1. Accept your partner’s fault. Then, admit your own. Make an effort not to keep repeating them.<br />
2. Make promises and KEEP THEM..Slip a note into their wallet or purse that says what is being served for dinner tonight and promise the dessert is worth waiting for!<br />
3. Find a shared interest. Explore new hobbies, sports or other interests that you both like and can participate in together.<br />
4. Make time just for you. And don’t break the date. Book babysitters ahead or clear your work calendar so there is no one on it but the other person.<br />
5.Communicate(i will keep stressing the importance of this in every relationship) If you find it difficult to say things, try surprising your better half with notes in their lunch, on their pillow, in the car etc. Often the written words open other doors. <br />
6. Do something unexpected. Send your partner flowers at work. That applies to men too. Or take them out for dinner on a weeknight.<br />
There you have it. These are just few ideas to keep the fire burning in your relationship. Do try to apply them...Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-56691435292017712392011-12-18T06:44:00.000-08:002011-12-18T06:44:05.449-08:00QUIT PLAYING ALONG....CHOOSEBelieve it or not, there are times when we fall in love with two different persons at the same time...Wait a minute! I mean falling in love with two different persons whom both have the same feeling for you....<br />
Some people might consider this completely wrong or weird but i would like to say that this is something very normal. We are all human beings with emotions and a heart. And besides, isn’t it wonderful to have the best of both worlds? But at the end of the day, we would have to decide....Yes, you have to make a choice..Choices which lead to decisions, decisions in turn affect our lives positively or negatively. Sometimes, we have made the right decisions, at times, the wrong. But no matter the decisions we might have made, life goes on.<br />
You can also decide not to choose at all ( if you are sure you won't regret it in future).Truth is that, no matter how much you want to keep playing along, you would finally have to make up your mind one day. You just got to decide whom you like more. All you need do is to follow your heart. Always bear in mind that these persons cannot keep waiting for you. You just have to choose. Good luck.successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265617776549006448.post-37682204803083171782011-12-18T06:40:00.000-08:002011-12-18T06:40:01.323-08:00FLOWERS FOR YOUR WOMAN THIS CHRISTMASGirls love flowers no matter how frequently they receive them. Flowers remind them how beautiful and breathtaking they are. You can give different flowers to your woman on different occasion with meanings and thoughts...When you choose a specific colour of flower for her; you are personalizing your gift with deeper sentiment.<br />
Red roses are the best to express beauty, romantic love and passion.<br />
White roses expresses purity, innocence, humility.<br />
Pink roses, which is very appropriate for newer relationships expresses appreciation, admiration.<br />
Orange roses expresses desire, enthusiasm.<br />
Lavender expresses love at first sight.<br />
Any other colour is appropriate as well, especially if your woman is passionate about certain colours.<br />
Getting a gift for your woman at Christmas could be overwhelming as Christmas is normally hectic...However, a thoughtful gift that can be appreciated is flowers....The best flowers to give at Christmas include cactus which expresses endurance, love....The orchid which symbolises beauty, refinement, thoughtfulness and mature charm......Poinsettia flower(also known as xmas flower, Mexican flame leaf)which symbolises purity....Today, poinsettia are the most recognised at xmas....successhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03659492451796319524noreply@blogger.com0